Welcome! I'm Natalie Hormann, and I believe that even after separation, families can thrive. My journey to becoming a family mediator and co-parenting coach is a diverse one, rooted in a deep commitment to helping individuals and families navigate complex transitions with grace and resilience.

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Originally from Germany, I've lived in four countries before settling in beautiful New Zealand in 2001 to start my own family. My career path has been varied and rich, including roles as an environmental lawyer, an acting family court judge in Germany, a corporate and strategy consultant for the New Zealand government, a grassroots community facilitator and now a life, relationship and executive coach. This diverse background has given me a unique perspective on human dynamics, legal frameworks, and the power of effective communication.

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My Approach: Transformative Growth for Lasting Peace

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My philosophy is centered on empowering you to create lasting change from within. I believe in questioning everything, taking nothing for granted, and taking full responsibility for our lives and our happiness. My approach is deeply transformative, addressing the root challenges of co-parenting to drive sustainable solutions.

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I guide parents to:

• Shift Perspective: Move beyond blame and reactivity to a place of understanding and proactive problem-solving.

• Build New Systems: Develop communication patterns and agreements that make old, conflict-ridden habits obsolete.

• Empower Themselves: Discover their inner resources to navigate challenges, set healthy boundaries, and foster a child-focused environment.

• Embrace Personal Growth: Recognize that improving co-parenting often begins with self-awareness and emotional regulation.

I combine my professional expertise with a compassionate, yet direct, style. I'm here to be your guide, helping you uncover your own solutions and build a co-parenting relationship that truly serves your children's best interests.

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My Skills & Expertise

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My extensive background and specialized training equip me to support you comprehensively:

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• Family Dispute Resolution & Mediation: Facilitating constructive dialogue and helping families reach mutually agreeable solutions outside of court.

• Conflict Resolution: Providing strategies and tools to de-escalate tensions and manage disagreements effectively.

• Life & Relationship Coaching: Guiding individuals to gain clarity, build confidence, and foster healthier relationships.

• Communication Training: Teaching practical techniques for clear, calm, and effective communication, even in high-stress situations.

• Leadership Development: Applying principles of effective leadership to the co-parenting dynamic, empowering parents to lead their family through change.

• Legal Acumen: My background as a lawyer and acting family court judge provides a foundational understanding of legal processes, though my current focus is on out-of-court resolution.

 

Certifications & Qualifications

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I am committed to continuous learning and hold a range of professional certifications:

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• Accredited Mediator and Professional Member of Resolution Institute New Zealand

• Family Dispute Resolution Provider

• Humanistic Mediation Provider

• Certified Strategic Intervention Life Coach (Robbins-Madanes Training)

• Certified Transformational Coach

• NLP Practitioner (Master level in progress)

• Counselling Practitioner

• Leadership Mastery Coach

• LSI, GSI – Human Synergistics Accredited Practitioner

• Judge's Qualification (High Court of Hamburg, Germany)

 

My diverse qualifications and real-world experience allow me to offer a holistic and highly effective approach to co-parenting challenges.

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Why Choose Me?

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Choosing the right guide for your co-parenting journey is crucial. With me, you gain:

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• A Neutral & Experienced Facilitator: Someone who can navigate complex emotional landscapes and guide difficult conversations.

• Practical & Proven Strategies: Tools and techniques that are not just theoretical but have been tested and refined through years of practice.

• A Compassionate & Empowering Partner: I understand the emotional toll of separation and am dedicated to helping you find your strength and peace.

• A Holistic Perspective: My varied background allows me to see the bigger picture, addressing not just the immediate conflict but also the underlying dynamics and personal growth opportunities.

 

I am passionate about helping families create a positive future, even when paths diverge. Let's work together to transform your co-parenting journey from conflict to cooperation.